Do any of you still talk to your ex?
I don't know about you but I date people I like (with one exception and that ended absolutely horrible). So it is only natural to feel crappy when there is a break-up, otherwise it would be a relief. Grant it there are times when you begin dating by liking who they are but that eventually (after a series of unfortunate events) turns into dislike.
I speak to two of my ex-boyfriends, not by any degree like I had pre-dating but every so often a brief exchange (a gchat every month). I can see how some people might think that is unnecessary or "dangerous," but it's mostly politics/education related topics. I don't have any interest in them anymore. Hence, the title of EX.
There are two that I absolutely do not speak to (one because he is a stalker/psycho, still wants to be with me, even though he got married a few months ago and the other because he is sick, mentally, spiritually and maybe even physically and the very thought of him makes me want to throw up).
Anyway, I ask because I had a funny encounter on the train earlier this week. I was on my way to class. I had my headphones on and was very distracted. As I got up to exit, I was staring into nothing and I see a hand waving and it was this guy (we had a very short-live dating exchange, about a year ago). Now I don't dislike this individual by any means but we didn't end on a happy note. It was a sudden coldness that occurred. Has this happened to you?
Anyway, I didn't understand why he would go out of his way to say hello. I mean had I been the first one to see him, I would have pretended not to see him.
Why? Because there is no real reason to say anything.
When he waved, I had to say "hello".....awkward silence....."how are things?".....he smiled, said "good".....and the doors opened and I left.
Awkward!
People: let's try and avoid awkwardness.
I am trash talking now. Hahaha.
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